人生建議三十條
1、設身處地為別人著想，並滿足別人內心強烈渴望的需求！
Put yourself in others' shoes and satisfy the needs of others.
2、如果你對事情滿懷熱忱，你就一定成功。
If you are passionate about things, you will succeed.
3、如果你想得到仇人，你就勝過你的朋友，如果你想獲得更多的朋友，就讓你的朋友勝過你。
If you want enemies, you are better than your friends. If you want more friends, let your friends be better than you.
4、別去展望那些遙不可及的前景，我們當務之急就是應付眼前的事物。
Don't look ahead to those distant prospects. Our urgent task is to deal with the immediate things.
5、只談論自己的人，永遠只會在自己的立場考慮問題。
People who only talk about themselves will always consider problems in their own positions.
6、相較於情緒，個人意志對行為的影響更為直接，只要調整行為，我們就能間接地調整情緒。
Compared with emotions, the influence of individual will on behavior is more direct. As long as we adjust behavior, we can adjust emotions indirectly.
7、不要因你的仇人而燃起一把怒火，最終卻燒傷了你自己。
Do not ignite anger against your enemies, but eventually burn yourself.
8、你靜下心來也許會發現，狗是唯一不需要為自己生活工作的動物，它所有的只是it can either make you or destroy you.
11、一件事，若能被思考，必能被思考的很清楚。
If a thing can be thought, it can be thought clearly.
12、我喜歡吃草莓，但我不會在釣魚的時候將草莓放在魚鉤上，因為魚喜歡吃蚯蚓。
I like strawberries, but I don't put strawberries on fishing hooks because fish like earthworms.
13、表現自己那是人性最主要的需要。
Expressing oneself is the most important need of human nature.
14、生活有進退，輸什麼也不能輸心情。
There is nothing to lose in life.
15、集中所有的智慧，所有的熱誠，把今天的工作做得盡善盡美，這就是你迎接未來的最好方法。
Concentrate all your wisdom, all your enthusiasm, and do your best work today. That's the best way for you to meet the future.
16、所謂堅強的特質，是指在面對一切困難時，仍有內在勇氣承擔外來的考驗。
The so-called strong character is that in the face of all difficulties, there is still inner courage to take the test of the outside world.
17、幸福並不是取決於外界的因素，而是取決於內在的狀態。
Happiness does not depend on external factors, but on internal state.
18、成功之道，惟有用心思考，別無捷徑。
The only way to success is to think hard, and there is no shortcut.
19、人們真正關心的只有自己，這一點永遠不會變，無論今天還是明天，無論現在還是未來。
The only thing people really care about is themselves, which will never change, today or tomorrow, now or in the future.
20、努力接近那些瞭解你，信任你，鼓勵你的人，這對於你日後的成功具有莫大的影響。
Working hard to get close to people who know you, trust you, and encourage you will have a great impact on your future success.
21、尊重別人，讓別人感覺他很重要！
Respect others and make others feel that he is important.
22、動用你的天賦，歸根結底，所有的藝術都是一種自我價值的外觀。
Use your gift. In the final analysis, all art is a self worth appearance.
23、一種最簡單又重要的獲取對方好感的方法就是牢記對方的名字。
One of the simplest and important ways to get a good impression is to remember the other person's name.
24、成功是得到你要的。幸福是要你得到的。
Success is getting what you want. Happiness is what you get.
25、庸俗的人在偉人的錯誤和愚行中能得到自己最大的快感。
Vulgar people can enjoy their greatest pleasure in the mistakes and follies of great men.
26、能養成善於靜聽能力的人，似乎要比任何好性格的人都少見。
People who develop good listening skills seem to be less common than any good character.
27、概念極為簡單，不幸的是，執行起來卻很複雜、很困難。
The concept is very simple. Unfortunately, it is very complicated and difficult to carry out.
28、感恩是極有教養的產物，你不可能從一般人身上得到，忘記或不會感謝乃是人的天性。
Gratitude is a highly educated product. You can't get it from ordinary people. It's human nature to forget or not to thank.
29、一個人最糟的是不能做自己，並且在身體和心靈中保持自我。
The worst thing a person can do is not to be himself, and to keep himself in the body and mind.
30、每個人都會對欣賞自己的人心生好感不論工人、職員、還是君主，無一例外。
Everyone likes to appreciate their hearts and minds, whether they are workers, employees or monarchs, without exception.
31、如果你期望致富，你就會致富。
If you want to become rich, you will become rich.
32、思考時，要像一位智者；但講話時，要像一位普通人。
Think like a wise man, but speak like an ordinary man.
33、關上過去和未來的大門，生活在完全獨立的今天。
Close the door of the past and future and live in a completely independent today.
34、批評就像一隻家鴿，它們總會飛回來的。
Criticism is like a pigeon. They always fly back.
35、偉人之所以偉大，就是看他如何對待一個卑微的人。
The reason why a great man is great is how he treats a humble person.
36、在事業成功的各因素中，個性的重要性遠勝過優秀的智力。
In all factors of success, personality is far more important than intelligence.
37、行動是由我們的基本慾望所產生的。
Action is generated by our basic desire.
38、對那些不成熟的人來說，他們永遠都可以找到一些藉口，以掩飾他們自身的某些缺點或不幸。
For those immature people, they can always find some excuses to cover up some of their own shortcomings or misfortunes.
39、在人生的道路上能謙讓三分，即能天寬地闊，消除一切困難，解除一切糾葛。
On the road of life, we can concede three points modestly, that is, we can be broad in the sky and the earth, eliminate all difficulties and dispel all entanglements.
40、對我們來說，最重要的是不要去看遠方模糊的事，而是去做手邊清楚的事。
For us, the most important thing is not to see vague things in the distance, but to do what is clear at hand.
41、批評帶來的並不是改變，而是怨恨。
Criticism is not about change but resentment.
42、成敗不在於大小，只在於你是否已竭盡所能。
Success or failure lies not in size but in whether you have done your best.
43、人們會做一件事情，都有兩種理由存在：一種是好的，另一種是的確很好。
There are two reasons why people can do one thing: one is good, the other is really good.
44、贏得爭論的方法只有一個，那就是避免爭論。
There is only one way to win disputes, that is to avoid arguments.
45、尖銳的批評和攻擊，所得的效果等於零。
Sharp criticism and attack result in zero effect.
46、你興趣所在的地方，也就是你能力所在的地方。
Where you are interested is where your ability lies.
47、人就是如此不知足。人性就是人性別指望人性會因你的慷慨而有所改變。
People are so insatiable. Human nature is human nature - do not expect humanity to change because of your generosity.
48、如果你想要征服恐懼，不要只是坐在家裡空想你的恐懼。走出去讓自己忙起來。
If you want to conquer fear, don't just sit at home and dream about your fears. Go out and make yourself busy.
49、當你失敗的次數夠多，而你又沒有被擊倒，那你就一定會成功！
When you fail enough times and you are not knocked down, you will succeed.
50、忘恩負義乃是人的天性，如果你非要期望別人感恩，那多半是庸人自擾。
Ingratitude is human nature. If you have to expect others to be grateful, it is mostly self serving.
51、人類不會因為工作過於疲勞而死，但卻會死於浪費和憂慮。
Humans will not die from overwork, but they will die of waste and worry.
52、生活中的許多煩惱都源於我們盲目和別人攀比，而忘了享受自己的生活。
Many troubles in life originate from our blind comparisons with others, and we forget to enjoy our lives.
53、別指望別人來感恩，你只需要享受施與的快樂！
Don't expect others to be grateful. You just need to enjoy the joy of giving.
54、不能生氣的人是傻瓜，而不去生氣的人才是智者。
Those who cannot be angry are fools, but those who do not get angry are wise men.
55、在鉅富中死去，是一種恥辱。
It is a shame to die in the great wealth.
56、能夠把心中的煩悶向知心朋友傾吐的人，通常既是能夠把握快樂，減少疲勞，精力充沛的人。
People who can pour out their frustration to their bosom friends are usually those who can grasp happiness, reduce fatigue and have plenty of energy.
57、在現代城市的混亂中，只有能保持內心平靜的人才不會變成神經病。
In the chaos of modern cities, only those who can keep their peace of mind will not become neurotic.
58、如果你希望做好，你就會做好。
If you want to do well, you will do well.
59、上帝在末日之前還不打算審判人，你我為什麼要批評人呢？
God does not intend to judge people before the end of the day. Why do I criticize you?
60、最愛挑剔的人、最激烈的批評者，往往會在一個懷有忍耐、同情的靜聽者前軟化下來。
The most critical person and the most intense critic tend to soften up before a patient and sympathetic listener.