學會說拒絕的英文演講稿

學會說拒絕的英文演講稿

　　篇一：演講learn to say no

　　SPEECH：LEARN TO SAY NO

　　幫助別人常被認作是中華民族的傳統美德，值得被讚美和鼓勵。於是，雷鋒的肖像掛滿了整個校園。但我們必須知道，什麼是幫助的前提。有些時候，需求僅僅是種苛求，因為它無足輕重，卻浪費自己太多時間和金錢；甚至於，違法亂紀，損人不利己。這樣的需求往往又披著“面子”的外衣，讓人礙於情面。

　　To help those who are in need is always regarded as the traditional virtue of Chinese nation. It deverses the praise and encouragement. So the portrait of LeiFeng is hung on the walls all around our campus. But, we alse need to know what is the precondition of help. Sometimes, the request from friends is too excessive. It is insignificance and a waste of time or money. What is more, it maybe violates the law and damages other people’s interests. However, standing in front of the people, we are always afraid of losing face for the denial of their requests.

　　學會說不，因為盲目的接受，常常會惹禍上身。我有一個遠親，他有一大堆朋友，有一天，一個朋友跑來向他借錢，不是個小數目，但也足以讓他在賭場上揮霍一陣子。當時，我的遠親他礙於情面，把家中的老底借給了他。後果自然是有借無還，被“接受”給拖累。他至今仍後悔著為什麼當初就沒有當面拒絕。

　　Learn to say NO, because blindly saying YES sometimes gets you in trouble. I have a remote relative. He has a lot of friends. One day, one friend came to him to borrow some money. It was Surely not a small number, and enough to piss away on the gambling table for a period of time. Then, my remote relative said YES to him due to the face. Finally the money did not come back as no surprise, and my remote relative had always regretted lending the money.

　　說NO吧，給予自己一個選擇的權利。面對情面這座大山時，有時候可以選擇繞道而行。情面再堅固，但我們不得不面對各種現實。一個週末，一位好朋友請你去陪他逛街，但你正好下午要去看望生病的外婆，那就說NO吧，因為，你不得不面對時間衝突這個現實。一個傍晚，隔壁的王姨請你在她出門打麻將的時候幫他看著孩子，面對作業如山的你，那就說NO吧，因為溫習功課的時間比打麻將的'時間貴多了。我們何必去計較一次兩次的拒絕會給情面帶來多大的傷疤呢，我們只求真誠以待，問心無愧。

　　Let us say NO! Give yourself a right to choose! Facing a moutain named ‘FACE’, why not take a detour. Because we sometimes have to face the reality when we face the FACE. One weekend, a friend of mine invited me to go a shopping. But, that day, I should visit my grandma who was ill. In that case, let us say NO. Because you have to face the reality of time conflict. One afternoon, Aunt Wang call me to look after her little child, because she want to play Mahjong outside. But, that time, I should face so much homework. In that case, let us say NO. Because the homework is of more value than your Aunt Wang’s Mahjong. Why should we sink into that upset for these empty FACE LOSINGs. What we should only do is be sincere to everyone.

　　學會說不，絕不是對任何事都置之不理，永遠不說是。而是基於最基本倫理道德準則和自己對是非的辨識能力。樂於助人確實是一種美德，能夠替人排憂解難，促進人與人的和諧相處。但是我們不得不承認，我們不能滿足每一個人，對要拒絕的事情說NO是生活的一種態度。

　　Learn to say NO. It does not mean that say NO to everything. It should be based on the ethical norms and the discerns ability. Helping others is a real virtue, and could promote the harmony between people. However, We have to be honest with myself that we could not satisfy everybody around me.

　　Finally, I think Say NO to the things we could not accept is a life attitude.

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　　篇二：英語演講稿：Learn How to Say No

　　英語演講稿：Learn How to Say No

　　we've all been taught that we should help people. it is the right thing to do and will make us popular with others. it may even win us favors in return. however, we must be realistic. we can't say yes to every request. if we did, we would fail or go crazy for sure. sometimes we simply don't have the time to help. in this case, we must know how to say no politely.

　　when we need to say no, here is one method we can try. first, we should tell the truth. if we really can't do something, we should just say so. second, we should remember to refuse requests politely. we must communicate clearly, but must also be sincere and sympathetic. a true friend will understand. finally, we must not feel guilty about saying no. sometimes refusing others is the right thing to do. it can save ourselves, and them, a lot of trouble. in short, we cannot please everyone all the time. refusing favors is a part of life.

　　篇三：英語演講稿：Learn How to Say No

　　英語演講稿：Learn How to Say No

　　we've all been taught that we should help people. it is the right thing to do and will make us popular with others. it may even win us favors in return. however, we must be realistic. we can't say yes to every

　　request. if we did, we would fail or go crazy for sure. sometimes we simply don't have the time to help. in this case, we must know how to say no politely.

　　when we need to say no, here is one method we can try. first, we should tell the truth. if we really can't do something, we should just say so. second, we should remember to refuse requests politely. we must communicate clearly, but must also be sincere and sympathetic. a true friend will understand. finally, we must not feel guilty about saying no. sometimes refusing others is the right thing to do. it can save ourselves, and them, a lot of trouble. in short, we cannot please everyone all the time. refusing favors is a part of life.